Constructive Feedback: 11 Things Good Leaders NEVER Do
Oct 28, 2019
Let's face it: If feedback were always pleasant, we wouldn't have to tack on the word "constructive."
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How to Say No Politely
Oct 21, 2019
Do you ever find yourself wanting to get out of an invitation? Or an obligation? One night before dinner, on my parents' last night in town, my dad was lamenting that he and my mother had received an invitation with the dreaded words "black tie."
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What's the First Song that Rocked Your World?
Oct 14, 2019
Great question, right? I first heard it in a video by Bishop Robert Barron, who read it in Rolling Stone. It's a fun question to share with family, friends and co-workers. It's also a good icebreaker at company meetings—and as you'll see, an easy...
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If You're Serious About Stress Management
Oct 07, 2019
You're going to have to get comfortable with saying no. But you're also going to have to get comfortable with delegating. I can help—not because I'm an expert at it but because in acquiring this skill, I've overcome my share of failed attempts.
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The Leadership Lesson Most Managers Miss
Sep 30, 2019
Yes, including most managers. Which means that once you get this, you'll not only be smarter than most managers, you'll be smarter than you were five minutes ago—more confident, more in control.
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The 3 Must-Haves of a Happy Office
Sep 23, 2019
If everyone deserves a drama-free workplace, why are so many people suffering just the opposite? Today's post has a quick true story—along with three qualities every office needs to thrive and compete well. Notice how none of these have to do with...
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How to Make Disappointment Hurt Less
Sep 16, 2019
Last week on Sept. 11, my cousin David would have turned 49—and I realized he'd been gone nearly as long as he'd been here. It's a real gift when the first thought of someone you've lost brings not tears but smiles. Ever been there? Disappointment...
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Sorry vs. Thank You
Sep 09, 2019
First, I can't thank you enough for allowing me the summer off. But more about that in a moment. Today's post is about the subtle difference our language can make. And though the lesson took place in a business realm, you may find it also applies to...
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"I'd Like to Tell You a Real Happening"
May 06, 2019
Have you ever longed to have a moment with someone you've loved and lost? Two weeks ago on a Florida beach, I had a moment that made me think of the 'real happening' line from Johnny Cash. "Meet the man responsible for my success..." — my dad,...
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